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Helpful Links for the Addict

National Association for Christian Recovery
Library, audio tapes, forums, referral center, and much more.
Clergy Recovery Network
Resources for pastors and other religious professionals.
Fuller Institute for Recovery Ministry
Training programs for pastors and recovery ministry leaders.
Prodigals International  
Helping families recover from sexual addiction.
Spiritual Abuse Recovery  
Resources for people recovering from spiritual abuse.
Christian Twelve Step Ministries
Twelve Step resources for Christians
Christian Twelve Steps
12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous & Biblical References12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous & Biblical References
DarvSmith.com
The online home of Dr. Darv Smith.
Christian Survivors
Resources for survivors of abuse
Confident Kids
Help for kids in high stress homes.
Recovery Man's Humor Asylum
Affordable out-patient treatment for the humor impaired.

 

For secular recovery we like:

  • Being dependent on others - those who have been in Recovery successfully

  • We like the reward that our pride offers us having made the decision to quit our obsessions/addictions

 

 

But he was pierced for our offenses, crushed for our sins, Upon him was the chastisement that makes us whole, by his stripes we were healed.

~ Isaiah 53:5

Are you struggling today with doubt, frustration, fear, and shame because of an ungodly addiction? Perhaps you've tried to walk in victory, but just can't seem to find the key to permanent freedom. Do you want to be loosed from the enemy's hold on your life?

If you have cried out to Him for help, then the Lord is working to heal you of your addiction. He is faithful and will free you from this weakness once and for all. "But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one" (II Thessalonians 3:3).

To be totally set free, ask the Lord to reveal the "root cause" for when, how, and why the addiction began. As the Lord reveals this to you, ask Him to forgive you for turning to the addiction rather than to Him for comfort. After repenting, rebuke the enemy in Jesus' name. This breaks his hold on you and frees you from condemnation, defeat, fear, and shame.

Let us pray for you. "Father, in Jesus' Name we ask You to reveal to your child the root cause of this addiction and when, how and why it began. Thank You for Your strength and grace enabling them to stand against temptation and to experience victory. We agree that Jesus' blood has the power to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, and we ask now for the power of His blood to cover Your child and bring cleansing, protection, and freedom. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

Now praise the Lord for the inner work of deliverance He is doing, and praise Him for His faithfulness to bring you into a new life of freedom!

God Bless You!

Why we like Recovering with Jesus in charge:

  • We enjoy the trust of Him who knows our hearts perfectly and understands what our needs are
  • We know we can trust God over our pride in all decisions

 

 

 

The dangers of addictive behavior for the Christian is we surrender continual submission to temptation. We learn to submit to desires while we unlearn leaning on our Lord and that we really can do all things in Christ who strengthens us.. The truth of guilt tells us we're sinning, we're doing things wrong. The horror of shame leaves us feeling not only a sinner, but we learn to identify with the sin until we feel like sin itself; from here we feel unworthy of even asking for forgiveness or repenting and open ourselves to a new totality of lies that allow no grace..

We'll find no other sureness of defeat than that we find when we turn from the Victor - Jesus Christ.

As of late Addiction is used for not only chemical abuse, but also used in describing obsessive behavior that maybe be, or is, damaging to a persons well-being.
In His terms this is all idolatry.  Anything that we set as a priority in our lives that takes more of us then we're willing to give to God can be considered idolatry.

The inevitable results we see from obsessive behavior is the product of sin of placing above God anything - as it separates us from Him, and the hole in our heart we constantly try to fill is this very thing - being without our Father!

Dear ones; do you know that if in his final moments Hitler was to repent, give his life to Christ and receive a new heart, that he would of been saved? How is it then that we can willfully accept the lies that come with shame, that assure our bondage? Most likely, if you're an addict, you're heard the voice of the father of lies most of your life, and that noise don't go away easy. While many self-help recovery plans encourage us to understand the damage and wreckage of our past addictive behavior, Christ would have you focus on your new life with Him.  It's hard to focus on the glory of God and remain crawling back to our temporary relief, knowing our freedom is in Him.

He will change you from the inside out.

He will heal you.

He will replace the turmoil of leading a unsatisfactory life into one of peace.

He will show you joy - even in times of trials.

KEEP YOUR EYES ON JESUS

Help Yourself!

Are you hungry for God in your life, or is your appetite more for helping your self - do you prefer a self-help group?

Why choose God's help over present day comfortableness we find in self-help. In the support approach do we find a fullness that last?

Let's examine how self-help seems to fit the needs of some

Or...

Do you find yourself still feeling that empty space in your heart that cries out to be filled? Do you feel your recovery requires more trusting company than just other people?

See if a Christ filled Recovery is what your heart calls out for

More Recovery Link for your help

  • Call To Recovery - A unique site designed to help those who are just admitting they have a problem.

  • Celebrate Recovery At Cokesbury - A Christ-centered, Biblically-based recovery program for individuals and their families who are dealing with emotional distress and addictive issues.

  • 12-steps - Biblical references for each of the 12 steps of AA.

  • Christians in Recovery - Lots of good stuff. Computer programs for Christians in recovery. Extensive lists of links.
     

  • A Brighter Tomorrow - Articles about recovery
     

  • A Program For Restoring Fallen Ministers and Religious Leaders - Restoration Manual: A Workbook for Restoring Fallen Ministers and Religious Leaders is a step by step process of organizing a Restoration Team for a repentant pastor with practical recovery steps. This unique workbook will help the broken minister pick up the pieces of his life as it gives hope/direction.

  • ADD of the Christian Kind - What is ADHD . . . . . of the Christian Kind? It is an acknowledgement that Christians (adults and children alike) may have ADHD and related disorders including depression, Tourette's Syndrome, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and others.

  • Alcoholics Anonymous and the Bible - The specifics that early A.A. took from the Bible when it was a Christian Fellowship, held
     

 

Keep your eyes upon Jesus dear ones!

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